Friday, September 28, 2007

Black Magic And Superstition - Leaders and Victims

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It is well known that Malaysians are generally a superstitious lot. Irrespective of race, Malaysians still believe that they can better achieve wealth, power, career, love etc with the help of supernatural means. We all know of people that have sought the assistance of bomohs (Malay witch doctors), feng shui masters (Chinese geomancers), Chinese and Indian astrologers and mediums etc to achieve whatever their goals are in life.

Most Malaysian still remember the famous bomoh Mona Fendy's case in 1993 - She killed and chopped her client, the then Batu Talam Assemblyman, Datuk Mazlan Idris into 18 pieces. Mona Fendy and her 2 accomplices were sentenced to death in 1995 and were hanged in 2001.

It was apparently reported by a well known online newspaper, last year, that a famous "bomoh politik"Awang Mohd Yahya admitted that Malaysian politicians seeking top posts in their party elections have sought his help.

Apparently Asahan, in Sumatera, Indonesia is well known for "bomoh tourism" - Malaysians visit Asahan to consult its powerful bomohs.

It is also rumoured that Blitar, a city in East Java, Indonesia, the birthplace of Sukarno (Indonesia's first president), also attracts "tourists" seeking assistance from its famous bomohs.

It is also not unusual to hear of Malaysians traveling all the way to Thailand and India to seek "spiritual guidance" from spiritualists there.

Are Malaysians the only ones obsessed with the supernatural ?

It has been reported in The Times that Burma’s Junta are intensely superstitious and have long been guided by a belief in prophecies, cosmology, numerology, magic etc

The newspaper further reported that politicians, in general, are superstitious:
  • Hitler, Holy Roman Emperor Rudolph II, Ronald and Nancy Reagan, Charles de Gaulle, François Mitterrand and Leonid Brezhnev have all sought advice from astrologers
  • President Roosevelt would apparently never travel on a Friday
  • Napoleon feared black cats, and believed that eating chicken and crayfish would bring victory
  • Catherine de’ Medici consulted Nostradamus
“We stand at the edge of the age of reason. A new era of the magical explanation of the world is rising”, said Hitler.

Well, we all know what happened to Hitler, right ?

The Times also quoted Gilbert Murray having once said “The best seed ground for superstition is a society in which the fortunes of men seem to bear practically no relation to their merits or effort.”

In 1970, Time Magazine reported that Indonesia's President Suharto and members of the Thai elite do rely on the advice of spiritualists. The magazine also said that the then Malaysian Minister of Works Tun V.T. Sambanthan regularly consults Hindu priests to determine the best days to open new facilities. However it reported that Lee Kuan Yew and President Marcos were the only 2 leaders in this region who do not believe in the supernatural. The ex President of Sri Lanka is believed to have used military helicopters to drop blessed soil on territories as advised by his astrologers.

Well, I believe that I must now get dressed and go for a cool beer or whatever, on a beautiful Saturday like this - Bye !.

Don't forget to tell me...what do you believe ?

How special are you ? Lessons from Mourinho

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José Mourinho the Manager of Chelsea Football Club was sacked last week. Although I'm not a Chelsea fan but what happened to Mourinho reminds us of some very important lessons...
  • You must never forget who your boss is
  • You must kiss your boss' arse and make him like you
  • You are not special, your boss is
  • Your boss' opinion of you, whilst arbitrary, is much more important that what others think of you
  • You can be replaced by someone else - talent can be bought.
In January this year, the BBC Sport reported, amid rumours that Mourinho will leave Chelsea, that John Terry said he was prepared to lead a players' protest to persuade the club's hierarchy (i.e. Abramovich) to keep Mourinho at Stamford Bridge.

I would like to say this to John Terry: John, you are a nobody. You're an employee just like Mourinho, if you wanna act like a "tai-kor" rebel, you will
also be sacked by Abramovich. All employees are replaceable.

For non-football fans read this first

For the the benefit of you non-football fans, I will elaborate a little on José Mourinho.
Mourinho is a very successful football club manager because he won four consecutive league titles (two at Porto [a top Portuguese football club] and two at Chelsea) and also the UEFA Champions League and the UEFA Cup with Porto. Mourinho is also currently the most successful manager in Chelsea's history having won a total of six trophies for Chelsea in three years.

Mourinho moved from Porto to Chelsea in June 2004 becoming one of the highest paid managers in football with a salary of £4.2 million a year, subsequently raised in 2005 to £5.2 million.

He is referred to by the media as the "special one" because of what he said at a press conference after joining Chelsea: "Please don't call me arrogant, but I'm European champion and I think I'm a special one".

Despite being disliked by managers, players and fans of other football clubs in England, Mourinho is somewhat a folk hero at Chelsea.

His boss was Chelsea's owner, Roman Abramovich, a Russian billionaire. According to Forbes magazine, Abramovich has a net worth of $18.7 billion and is the 16th riches man in the world. Abramovich is currently the riches man living in the UK. He bought Chelsea Football Club in 2003.

Abramovich and Mourinho started having some misunderstandings last year over the management of Chelsea. Despite José Mourinho achievements at Chelsea, Abramovich unexpectedly and without prior warning sacked Mourinho last week, 20 September 2007, giving some frivolous and lame excuse. Abramovich then replaced Mourinho with unknown manager Avram Grant. Note that Abramovich appointed Grant although Grant has no significant achievements in high level professional football competitions.

Post your opinions, please

Don't give me a missed call, dammit !

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Aren't you annoyed at some inconsiderate people who give you a "missed call" on your mobile phone and expect you to call them back ?. Another variation of this is the standard text (sms) message that says "please call me". I personally have not received very many missed calls or call me text massages. If I did, I would just ignore them - no call backs from me. Or if I'm feeling sarcastic, I would return their missed call, by giving them missed calls in return, or send them back a standard call me back text. My motto is, if you cannot afford to use a mobile phone, don't. Send an email, instead.

I'm thus not surprised to read the report in Yahoo News that this "missed call" practice is prevalent in 3rd world countries in Africa as well.

Giving a missed call is also called "beeping" or "flashing" in some African countries.

According to the report, there is even a "social protocol" for this practice, namely:
  • Beep richer guys than you
  • Don't beep someone if you intend to ask a him favour
  • Don't beep your girlfriend
In Malaysia I noticed that people who get loads of missed calls are:

  • sales people (call me back, I want to ask you something about your service / product)
  • students (aiyah, no prepaid credit lah !)
  • men with "working class" female friends (the girls will always beep the guys)
  • those with cheapskate "friends"
Have you guys been irritated by being beeped ? Share your comments.

Monday, September 24, 2007

Turn Your Hobby Into A Business

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If you want to do meaningful work and change your career, you should maybe consider starting with your hobby.

According to an article in Monster.Com, if you intend to turn your hobby into a business, you must first be sure that your hobby has commercial potential - being passionate about something is not enough. You can begin by researching job / career sites to see if there are any jobs that relate to your hobby.

Then, you must consider whether you would be happy working in it as a business. Remember that doing something as a hobby is different than doing something as a business.

"When your hobby becomes your work, it may not be the same," says Bevington. "This change can take the fun out of what you are doing. In addition to making the product or providing the service, you now have to think about pricing, deadlines, doing it someone else's way, etc." said Nancy Hayes Bevington, a management consultant.

Bevington also stated that your personal experience won't necessarily be transferable professionally. "The workplace will look at you as someone who comes in with no professional experience, even if you have done this for years" on a personal level, she said.

You must be willing to start from the bottom again, to gain experience doing your "hobby" on a professional basis. You can do this by working for a small outfit, first.

Curt Rosengren, a career consultant advised not to quit your day job, yet. He suggested that you "continue to do what you are doing to bring in revenue, while taking a parallel path to help make the transition" to your hobby job.

Read the full story here.

Related post - Are you fed up with your job ?

Please let me know your views on this.

Sunday, September 23, 2007

The ULTIMATE Ramadan Bazzar and Hotel Buffet List

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In its Metro section on 23 September 2007, The Star has reported that "just days into the fasting month, already the air of festivity cannot be nudged aside as people throng the Ramadan bazaars for tasty treats. It has been the norm that long before the start of Ramadan, the elaborate and painstaking preparation for it would have already started. For hotels, every detail would have been looked into to revise and update menus for the daily buka puasa events. For bazaars, though the planning is at a smaller scale, the preparation is no less gruelling and time-consuming" - read the full story here.

Photo above by Moriazi (Lensa Malaysia)


This is the ultimate list of Ramadan Bazaars in the Klang Valley

Kuala Lumpur

Bangsar
Jalan Telawi Satu
See Masak-Masak

Wangsa Maju
Section 1
Stalls begin from Alpha Angle Shopping Centre right up to the LRT Station. It is in front of low rise flats. From the Wangsa Maju LRT Station, cross the road and walk towards the flats.
See Masak-Masak
See the NST

Taman Tun Dr Ismail
Jalan Tun Mohd Fuad 3 and 4
Stalls are located in front of Sinaran Condominium work site and in front of the row of shop houses which has a Guardian Pharmacy.
See Masak-Masak

Gombak
Taman Greenwood
From Jalan Duta, drive straight down towards Jalan Kuching. Take the elevated highway after Makro, then turn left into Batu Caves. Take the lower road towards Gombak. At the traffic lights, drive straight. The bazaar is on the right hand side of the road.
See Masak-Masak

The NST's list of Ramadan Bazaars in Kuala Lumpur:

In city centre:

  • Lorong Tuanku Abdul Rahman
  • Lorong Tuanku Abdul Rahman 3, 5, 7
  • Tapak Wakaf Pemuzik Buta
  • Lanai Seni
  • Jalan Masjid India
  • Lebuh Ampang
  • Jalan Haji Taib
  • Jalan Raja Alang

In Cheras/Sg Besi:

  • Desa Aman, Cheras
  • Flat Sri Melaka
  • Taman Len Sen
  • Jalan Tasik Permaisuri
  • Jalan Tasik Permaisuri 1, Bandar Tun Razak
  • Pangsapuri Sri Penara Fasa 2
  • Pasar Pagi Jalan Jujur
  • Pusat Komuniti Bandar Tun Razak
  • Velodrom Tun Razak
  • PPR Desa Tun Razak
  • PPR Sri Alam
  • PPR Pudu Ulu, Cheras
  • Jalan Pasar Pudu (susur)
  • Desa Tasik, Sg Besi
  • Pekan Sg Besi
  • Jalan Raden, Sri Petaling

In Wangsa Maju/Setapak/Gombak:

  • Pasar Datuk Keramat
  • Medan Selera Semarak
  • Keramat Wangsa
  • Persiaran Setiawangsa
  • Jalan Wangsa Melawati 3
  • Setapak Jaya
  • Danau Kota, Setapak
  • Jalan Langkawi/Teratai Mewah
  • Lot D Medan Idaman, Gombak
  • Medan Idaman, Gombak
  • Plaza Idaman Gombak
  • Pasar Moden Gombak
  • Taman Melati, Setapak (pasar malam site)

In Sentul/Batu:

  • Bandar Baru Sentul
  • Taman Dato Senu
  • Taman Desa Bakti
  • Taman Koperasi Polis Fasa 2
  • Kg Batu Muda

In Kepong/Segambut:

  • Metro Prima, Kepong
  • PPR Beringin
  • Taman Mutiara Fadason
  • Jalan Kuching (Flat PKNS)
  • Taman Segambut (SPPK)

In Lembah Pantai:

  • Jalan 8A, Taman Sri Sentosa
  • Taman Pasir Permata
  • PPR/P Kg Kerinci, Bangsar
  • Flat 17 tingkat, Kg Kerinci
  • Tapak Pasar Tani Mega, Pantai Dalam
  • Jalan Pantai Dalam (bawah jejambat NPE)
  • Jalan Bangsar Utama
  • Jalan Telawi Satu, Bangsar
  • Jalan Sri Jati 3, Off Jalan Puchong

In Kampung Pandan:

  • Desa Pandan
  • Jalan 5/76B, Desa Pandan
  • Pusat Penjaja dan Pasar Jalan Wirawati

Kampung Sungai Pencala
Taman Tun Dr Ismail

See the NST


Selangor

Section 14 Petaling Jaya
Jalan 14/28, Petaling Jaya
Landmarks: Jaya supermarket, Digital Mall. The stalls are near Right Angle's shop houses - Utusan Melayu (the shop lots near the mosque).
See Masak-Masak

Kelana Jaya
Jalan SS6/1
The bazaar is on the left hand side just next to the government quarters. This is near the small Giant Supermarket in Kelana Jaya.
See Masak-Masak

United Subang Jaya Web Forum's list of Ramadan Bazaars in Petaling Jaya, Subang Jaya and Shah Alam:

Petaling Jaya:
* Seksyen 17/1A
* Seksyen 14/27
* Lembah Subang
* Desa Mentari
* SS 8
* Damansara Damai (Vista Business Centre)
* Stesyen Bas Jalan Othman
* Kg. Baiduri, Seksyen 51A
* SD 13/2, Sri Damansara
* Kg. Sg. Kayu Ara Damansara
* Seksyen 6 Kota Damansara
* SS 8 Sungai Way
* Seksyen 7 Kota Damansara
* Damansara Damai (Apartment Idaman)
* SS 6/1 Kelana Jaya
* PJS 8
* Pelangi Damansara
* Taman Medan
* PJS 6/3 Kg Lindungan
* Taman Sri Manja
* Pasar Taman Dato' Harun


Subang Jaya:
* USJ 7
* USJ 4
* SS 18
* USJ 1
* PJS 11/2
* Summit Shopping Complex Open Car Park


Shah Alam:
* Seksyen 2
* Seksyen 17
* Seksyen 18
* Seksyen 20
* Seksyen 25
* Seksyen 28
* BBSB Fasa 1
* Subang Perdana
* Stadium Shah Alam
* Seksyen 27
* Seksyen 19
* TTDI Jaya
* Pekan Subang
* Seksyen 7 Tlk Dewan Seksyen 7
* Seksyen 18/34
* Seksyen 18/42
* Tlk Restoran Daud Seksyen 6
* Tlk Dewan Seksyen 16
* Taman Subang Pinggiran
* BBSB Fasa 2
* BBSB Fasa 3
* Seksyen 24
* Seksyen U10
* Bukit Jelutong
* Subang Suria (Jalan Matahari)

See United Subang Jaya Web Forum

Charkueyteow.Com's list of Ramadan Bazaars in Subang Jaya and Puchong:

Subang Jaya
Jalan SS 18/6
USJ 7
Jalan USJ 4/5
USJ 1 (Angsana flats)
Jalan USJ 1/4G
Putra Heights (in front of Mutiara flats)
SS 19
Jalan BK 5A/1
Taman Tenaga

Puchong
Jalan Taman Kinrara, Section 1 Taman Kinrara
Jalan TPK 2/1
Jalan Perdana 2, Taman Puchong Perdana
Taman Puchong Permai (flats)
Taman Puchong Prima
Jalan Utama 2/1
Jalan Wawasan 2/2
Jalan 18/35, Taman Seri Serdang
Jalan 2/10, Taman Universiti Indah
Taman Pinggiran Putra
Jalan PP 1B, Taman Equine

See Charkueyteow.Com


Hotel Ramadan Buffets in the Klang Valley

Mohdimran.com's list
An extensive list of more than 70 places for the "buka puasa" feast. Please note the interesting price comparisons between the years.

Zestful Eats' list.
A list of nearly 50 restaurants and hotel ramadan buffet offerings.

Good Food Everywhere's list
About 40 eating places to dine for Ramadan. Note the links to the various establishments.


There you have it, the most extensive list of Ramadan food feasts on the World Wide Web.

Selamat Berbuka Puasa.

Related posts

Pasar Malam - Kuala Lumpur

Pasar Malam - Petaling Jaya


Thursday, September 20, 2007

The World's Secret Billionaire

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Who is Chuck Feeney ?

You will not believe that Chuck Feeney is a billionaire. According to published sources, he carries plastic bag that serves as a briefcase, wears a $15 plastic watch, flies economy class and does not own a house or car. Chuck Feeney was born in New Jersey during the Depression to a blue-collar Irish-American family, he co-founded Duty Free Shoppers, the world's largest duty-free retail chain. In 1988 he was listed by Forbes Magazine as the 23rd richest American alive and worth $1.3 billion, richer than Rupert Murdoch and Donald Trump.

Thus far, Chuck Feeney has given billions away to schools, hospitals, universities, medical research and human rights from the United States and Ireland to South Africa and Vietnam.

He is obsessed in keeping his identity a secret. He incorporated his charitable foundation in Bermuda and attached confidentiality agreements and cabal-like vows of secrecy to his foundation's grants. After the cashier's checks cleared, there were no black-tie parties, no self-effacing speeches.

I have tried searching for his photo on the internet, but can't find even one - the photos listed on Google Image search, isn't him.

His photo is not even published on his charitable foundation's website The Atlantic Philanthropies

However, there is a rare group photo of him published by Time Magazine in 1997

According to news reports, Chuck Feeney made money in his youth selling Christmas cards door-to-door, clearing snow from driveways and caddying at golf courses. He loved the challenge of making money but had little use for it.

"The Billionaire Who Wasn't: How Chuck Feeney Secretly Made and Gave Away a Fortune" is a new book written by Journalist Conor O'Clery about this remarkable man.

Read more about Chuck Feeney in MSNBC and Business Week

What would you do if you had a million ringgit ? Comments please.


Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Do you like it black and strong ?

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Know your coffee.

Malaysians these days like to drink "Gourmet" coffee...at franchised cafes...talking away on their hand phones and tapping away at their laptops, while sipping their favorite java. Wah, how classy ! - just like in Paris or New York ;)

Not important facts about coffee

Coffee can trace its history as early as the 9th century, from the highlands of Ethiopia. From Ethiopia, coffee spread to the Middle East and to rest of Africa, then to Italy (and Europe).

Although there are about 10 types of coffee species in the world, Arabica and Robusta are the most common coffee beans traded.


Arabica, however, represents about 75% of the world's coffee trade.

Arabica is a species of coffee indigenous to Ethiopia; it is hand picked by the natives.

Robusta is grown mainly in Africa, Brazil and Vietnam.

Arabica beans are considered superior to Robusta. Robustas are usually limited to lower grade coffee blends as a filler - usually used for instant coffee.

Important facts about coffee

Different coffee companies blend and "brand" its coffee differently, just to confuse people. It's more or less the same shit, with different names.

Anyway, coffee beans are relatively cheap as it is produced in 3rd world countries. Why then, you may ask, is coffee so expensive when you buy it in the shops ?

Why is regular petrol (RON 92 - RM1.88 sen per litre) still very much cheaper than a mug of the cheapest coffee ("coffee of the day") at Starbucks ?

A regular / medium mug (about 300 ml) of the cheapest coffee (coffee of the day) at Starbucks cost about RM8.

300 ml of petrol cost only about RM0.56 sen.

I can see you coffee drinkers are all sad already...

Now you know who is the super Star and who has the big Bucks. ;) - sorry, it ain't you.

Pointed out earlier, the coffee beans itself are cheap.

What special expertise does it take to make a cup of coffee ? A Rm4.50 per hour waiter (opps...Barista) ? Absolutely not.

No high technology or expertise required, at all, to make a cup of coffee. And yet, its.....RM ? per mug.

At least for petrol, there are high costs for exploration, extraction, research, scientists, chemists, engineers etc etc just to produce the final product. But it is still very much cheaper than....hehehe....coffee.

Ok, I wont make you people depressed anymore...

On the bright side, this is what all the exotic stuff you've been drinking mean:
view Coffee For Dummies

To cheer you up further, I've also included a fun quiz Do You Know Your Coffee ?

You won't win any prizes if you get all the answers correct, but its a great time waster and it is free ! :)

Comments please - "Gourmet" coffee and tea drinkers are especially invited to comment after you "cool down".

Monday, September 17, 2007

20+ Free Educational Resources - Online

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Free education. When nothing much these days are free. Bookmark this post, you'll never know when you'll need it.

You can learn languages and business on the BBC, listen to lectures from well known Chinese Universities, "attend" lectures at Princeton University, download free books etc

Please visit Mashable

Warning: Horny Girl Turns Man To Stone.

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This girl really knows how to make a guy, rock hard - the whole guy has turned to stone.

"The Stone" is certainly getting more action than most of you guys. LOL.

Where do you think the girl learned how to do this ?

Comments please.

Sunday, September 16, 2007

Secret Mantra

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Secret Mantra

I admit that I am superstitious and gullible.
But today I learned something new.
I will not believe blindly anything I read on the internet or anywhere else anymore.
Not everything people say or write about, is true.
There is no bomoh practising black magic living in a cave in the jungles of Pahang.
The story was completely made up.

There is a bomoh practising black magic living in middle earth called click here.

Saturday, September 15, 2007

An accurate reading of your life ? Naadi Shastra

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Naadi Shastra claims that your life is already written down and is, thus, predestined. An expert Nadi reader will be able to tell your name, parent's name, spouse's name (if any), career paths etc with accuracy, provided "your leaf"can be found.

I had accounts of two friends who had gone to India for such readings and they reported that those readings to be very accurate. One said that the Nadi reader knew her name and her boss' name. He also accurately told her about the situation in her career at that moment. The other friend said that the Nadi reader knew his name, his spouse's and his children's names. Apparently, the Nadi reader also knew about his career problems at that time, and predicted that in a few months from then, there will be a mass retrenchment exercise in his company and he will be promoted to fill a superior position. All that came true.

However, 2 years ago, another friend of mine, Shiva Kumar visited a Nadi reader from India who was accepting "clients" at an ashram (in a house in Petaling Jaya). Apparently this Nadi reader was so famous thus he was fully booked. My friend only managed to secure an appointment with this "famous" Nadi reader, after making several attempts within the span of 1 week, even then, he was only accepted to replace someone else who had cancelled her appointment. Anyway, his reading lasted approximately 45 minutes and cost RM200.

My friend told me later that despite being "famous", that Nadi reader could not tell him anything with certainty - not his name, his parents' names, career etc. Apparently, the Nadi reader held open a laptop and was reading an astrology chat on the laptop while "interpreting" a few palm leaves (Nadi leaves) by his side. My friend felt cheated. The Nadi reader was "cold reading - bullshitting his way", said my friend.

According to Wikipedia, Nadi astrology (naadi jothidam) is a form of astrology practised in Tamil Nadu, India. It is based on the belief that the past, present and the future lives of all humans were foreseen by Hindu sages in ancient times [and was recorded] on Palm leaves.

Nadi Astrology leaves can be traced back to approximately more than 2000 years. These Nadi leaves were initially stored in the premises of Tanjore Saraswati Mahal Library of Tamilnadu. Some leaves got destroyed and the remaining were auctioned during the British rule. These Nadi leaves were obtained and possessed by the families of astrologers in Vaitheeswaran Temple. This is an art passed down [through] the years from one generation to the other.

The notion that astrologers claim these predictions were made for all human beings who have lived or will ever live is not completely true. Nadi astrologers say only a certain number of souls' future predictions are there in the leaves. They are reported cases of exact match in the past details and future predictions. Since the prophecy is written in the form of Tamil verses, their interpretation is subject to the nadi astrologer's way of understanding and interpreting them. But those who can understand poetic Tamil (professors, etc.) can understand the verses without the help of an astrologer.

Dr Amir Farid Isahak, a medical specialist who practises holistic, aesthetic and anti-ageing medicine, wrote in The Star that he had gone for an Nadi reading.

Dr Amir wrote, "It took over 1½ hours just to select my Nadi leaf. This was done through a process of elimination. When the correct leaf was found, what it contained was astounding."

Dr. Amir reported that the leaves said,
“You will be astonished by our powers. You will be seeking knowledge about Siddhas and be blessed. You may be a Muslim, but you are fated to know all these. You will get more knowledge and become like a Siddha yourself. You will get very clear high-level knowledge in your mind. You will discover a lot of truths, and will encounter a lot of surprises. You are fated to know secrets. You were born into this world to know the Truth.”

Apparently what the leaves "said" was accurate and congruent with his life path.


Have anyone of you heard of this ? Do you believe in fortune telling ? Please comment.


Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Penis massage for only RM65. Interested ?

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The "standard package" for "batin massage" (male genital massage) in Kelantan is apparently between RM200 and RM300.

It is believed that batin massage (a Malay massage technique) can make your penis bigger and can substantially improve your performance in bed.

According to Professor Dr Shaiful Bahari Ismail from Universiti Sains Malaysia Hospital Family Health Clinic, specialists massage of the penis and testicles might prove dangerous for people suffering from erectile dysfuncton.

"Although there is no scientific research on the effect of massage of the private parts, massaging techniques carried out directly on the penis and testicles may damage blood vessels, the nerve system and even the skin," Dr Shaiful said.

However, traditional masseur Mohd Zafri Harun, 35, who has been in the business for 15 years, claimed a success rate of 70 per cent.

"So far, most of my clients are satisfied with my service. They are happy with the size achieved after treatment," Mohd Zafri claimed.

Read the full report in the NST

Batin massage also called "Chook Kan" in Chinese which simply refers to penis massage.
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Batin massage services have also gone hi-tech - you can find the services advertised online:

An online classified advertisement offers "Traditional Massage + Batin 11/2jam RM65" - KL price.

A website, which appears to specialise in batin massage, advertises its cheapest "package" at RM180 for 75 minutes.

There are numerous massage centres in Kuala Lumpur these days. Just look in the telephone or tourist directory under Massage Kuala Lumpur, and you are bound to find a few.

Related post - Does "Urut Batin" Improve Men's Performance in Bed ?

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Dangerous Penis Enlargement Methods To Avoid

There are a lot of scams out there that claim to be able to enlarge your penis. Most of these methods simply doesn't work. Some are known to have caused serious injury. A lot of people fall for these scams because they are designed to prey on the insecurity and misfortune of a lot of men - a lot of men are simply unsatisfied, if not devastated with their current size. These are some methods that do not work:

Penis enlargement pumps

Penis enlargement pumps are suction devices that are fitted over the penis. When activated, the pump creates a vacuum around the penis and this pressure causes blood to rush to the penis, making it engorged, enabling an erection. These vacuum pumps have been used to help men who are dealing with erectile dysfunction.

However, these vacuum pumps are very easy to misuse. If used too vigorously, the pressure created around the penis could potentially cause vascular damage. It is also possible for the penis to be sucked in or pulled in to the cylinder causing injury.

Penis enlargement pills and patches

Penis enlargement pills and patches are normally seen advertised on the internet a lot. Although they promise a very convenient and discreet solution to enlarge your penis, studies show that they are not effective and are known to have many side effects that cause illness. All the current pills and patches being sold are unregulated and are not FDA approved. Apparently most of these products are manufactured in China and are sold online without government supervision.

Surgery

Surgery to enlarge the penis involves severing some of the ligaments that connect the penis to the underside of your pelvic bone. The theory behind this is that since half to one third of the penis is “hidden” inside the body, thus by cutting some of these ligaments, more of the penis is exposed, and this will make the penis appear larger. The result is merely cosmetic and does not enhance your erection.

This kind of surgical procedure is dangerous - research say that there is a 70 % risk of losing your ability to have an erection after this surgery.

A method that works

So far there is only one known penis enlargement technique that is effective and safe. This is a natural method that requires some exercise - a penis enlargement exercise designed by experts. Although this is the best, safest and cheapest method, it requires you to perform this special exercise. This method is designed to encourage new cells to grow in the penis, causing your penis to grow in length and in thickness permanently, safely and naturally.

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Do you have the right to have sex with anyone ?

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A judge has asked South Korea’s highest court to decide once again on whether adultery should remain a crime.

Judge Do Jin-ki said that punishment on adultery violates human rights - the right to pursue happiness and to choose one's sex partners.

"Sex is a natural human desire and it is inappropriate to restrict it by law’’, Judge Do said.

Read the full report in The Korea Times

Sex is a biological need, just like food. The law is, however, made by human beings. Why should the law, which is created by human beings, restrict a biological function, like sex, or any other biological function ?

Do these legal restrictions, on sex or other biological function, actually serve a greater social good ? To what extent should these restrictions be governed by law ? Sometimes, cultural restrictions also forbid human beings from exercising our natural biological functions. Cultural restrictions can, in some instances, be even more effective than legal restrictions.

What do you think ?

Monday, September 10, 2007

"China girl services" in a rambutan farm

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Try the sweet and fresh rumbutans, specially from China !. Sold in a rambutan farm in Selangor.

The "rambutan farm"
called Peaceful Haven is located in a secluded area, surrounded by an oil palm estate and a pig farm, in Kanchong Darat about 10km from Banting Selangor.

20 "China Girls" were caught working in this "vice farm", which had been operating for 2 months.


When the police raided the place, they detained 30 clients, including businessmen and salesmen, driving luxury cars.

Read the full story in The Star

Please comment on whether you prefer to visit a "papaya farm" or a "rambutan farm" ?


Sunday, September 9, 2007

If you had RM1 Million, would you buy this tortoise ?

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This is Janus. It is a 10-year-old two-headed tortoise. It is presented to the crowds at the Natural History Museum in Geneva, on his birthday.


A genetic malformation caused Janus to be born with two heads.

From the BBC

A tortoise or land turtle is a land-dwelling reptile of the Order Testudines (Turtles, Tortoises, and Terrapins). Order Testudines are oldest reptile groups; much more ancient group than lizards and snakes. The earliest known Order Testudine has its origins since 215 million years ago.

Tortoises generally have lifespans comparable with those of human beings, and some individuals are known to have lived longer than 150 years. Because of this, they symbolize longevity in some cultures, such as China. The oldest tortoise ever recorded, indeed the oldest individual animal ever recorded, was Tui Malila, who was presented to the Tongan royal family by the British explorer Captain Cook shortly after its birth in 1777. Tui Malila remained in the care of the Tongan royal family until its death by natural causes on May 19, 1965. This means that upon its death, Tui Malila was 188 years old.

See Wikipedia

What's the difference between Turtles, Tortoises, and Terrapins ?

A simple generalisation is as follows:

Turtles, Tortoises, and Terrapins are the same type of animal with different names.

Turtles - Tortoises or Terrapins that live in the sea.

Tortoises - Turtles or Terrapins that live on land.

Terrapins - Turtles or Tortoises that live in fresh water (river, ponds etc)

For the Chinese the tortoise symbolises longevity, support, wealth and prosperity. It is believed that the tortoise possess the secret of heaven and earth within its body.



Saturday, September 8, 2007

Meaningful Work Vs Cari Makan Part 2

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This is Part 2 of the post - Are you happy with your job ? where 5 Malaysian professionals discuss a practical way to pursue meaningful work.

Read Part 1 here.

Kate joins us for drinks, and the conversation continues.

We finished dinner ! – the first part of our night out is completed. More chit-chat about random issues. May Yen then asked if anyone was going to vote in the coming general elections but no one was in the mood to talk about the coming general elections. Anyway, I quickly pointed out to everyone that May Yen didn’t bother to vote at the last general elections; she stayed at home watching Forrest Gump and Austin Powers on DVD.

We ordered a bottle of whisky – I’ve always felt somewhat embarrassed about purchasing a whole bottle of whisky and leaving it on the table. This is a typically 3rd world Asian habit. This doesn’t usually happen in advanced countries. People don’t buy a whole bottle of whatever and leave it on the table.

The waiter brings over the bottle and asked if we would like complementary coke or soda to go with the whisky. I told him to bring me a bottle "mineral water". The rest wanted soda. I’ve always wondered why distilled, reversed osmosis or filtered water are also referred to as "mineral water" in Malaysia. If I were to ask the waiter to bring me filtered water, he would look at me with a blank face. Anyway, it’s better to go with the flow…

Kate finally arrived, greeting everyone with "Hi guys". I noticed that Kate had brought along her portfolio case – this means trouble and you will know why, later. She sat down and was introduced to James and Paul.

Kate complained about the parking and casually asked about how were "things" going, rather than what "things" are happening to us.

Paul said to Kate, "So you’re in advertising. How’s business ?". Kate politely said that business was good, but competition is tough, clients are getting more and more unreasonable…yada yada yada…

James lighted up a cigarette. He added something about the laws of supply and demand. He complained about the business practices in the country and then asked Kate, "I heard you’re also into MLM…how good ah ?"

Kate explained that she had just "re-stared" (for lack of a better word) her MLM business. She was into this MLM business a few years ago with another company, but quit after a few months. She said she didn’t have enough motivation then.

Kate said that since January this year, she had joined her present MLM company and is slowly increasing sales. She then asked for our permission to introduce the range of products that the company has (now you know what the portfolio case was all about).

Out came the brochures from the portfolio case – shampoo, toothpaste, orange juice, vitamins… you name it, she has it. May Yen and myself have seen those brochures before but we decided to look excited and looked at them again.

Kate then brought out another brochure and said, "this is not from my company, my friend is selling this" – It turned out that it was about some "magic" magnetic bracelet that can cure all illnesses. I’ve heard of this before – a cure-all magic bracelet, but without any credible scientific basis whatsoever. Sells very well in Malaysia, I was told. This proves that a sizable number of Malaysians are just a bunch of suckers !.

The others were still looking (or pretending to look) at the brochures.

I looked at Kate and said, "So you believe in this magnetic bracelet, lah ?". She then evasively replied, "Well, some people believe in it…there are a lot of reports from people that it works". She added, "Anyway, its not my product. Its my friend's product…just showing it to you guys." I wanted to pursue this argument with her, but then decided not to.

Pointing at the brochure James was looking at, Kate said, "This product is good for men". James didn’t say a word. Paul and May Yen looked up and smiled.

James then raised up his fist in a "strong man" gesture and asked, "Really good for this, ah ?".

Everybody laughed at James’ gesture.

What I found was that the products were seriously overpriced. The reason is so the MLM company can afford to pay multiple levels of agents / marketers / salesmen / entrepreneurs (whatever you want to call people like Kate), their relatively high commissions.

Half an hour had passed and Kate answered many of our frivolous questions about the products. None of us showed any real interest in purchasing the products. Kate then gave her MLM name card to James and Paul for them to contact her "just in case" they changed their minds about purchasing any of the over priced "revolutionary products" featured in the brochures.

There was a short silence until Paul called the waiter and asked for more Soda.

"So you guys happy with your work ?", Kate asked.

Oh no ! not that topic again. I always had the hunch that we will go back to this topic, as it hasn’t quite met its end, a few hours earlier.

May Yen explained to Kate that we were just discussing about that earlier. Kate then said that it would be a good idea if we could, like her, also get involved in the MLM business, as a stepping-stone towards self-employment.

I pointed out that the MLM business is structured as an organisation. Just like any other organisation, it is a huge pyramid scheme where the thousands at the bottom support the few at the top. Look at any organisation, be it your company, your firm, the stock market, the national and world economy, the government…

The many at the bottom, work very hard, to support the few at the top. The people at the top dictate how the structure of the organisation works (and can change it at any time). Those at the bottom are given the promise that they, too, have the opportunity to reach the top. Theoretically it seems very possible. But in reality, it is very much different.

James asked, "Why do you want to do MLM ?. Its like being a salesman working for 100% commission; no basic salary. James observes that MLM agents work free for the company, in exchange for a commission – the commercial cost of sales is transferred from the company to the "agent".

Further, James said that there are so many "agents" selling the same product to the same marketplace, because it is to the benefit of the company to create artificial competition amongst its "agents" – it doesn’t matter who sells the products, the company still makes money.

Besides, added Paul, not everyone is good at selling consumer goods "door to door", so to speak.

The conversation became very de-motivating for Kate, I could see. She finally admitted that she doesn’t really enjoy the MLM business but is doing it to provide an alternative income to her current job. "I’m doing this just for the money, I just want to quit my job", she said.

In Kate’s case, why do something else (from your regular job) that you also don’t like, just for the money ? For some, it is better than being an employee.

Ok. As an employee, what exactly don’t you like:

1. Don’t like my job function

2. Don’t like my boss / colleagues

3. Don’t like the office work structure eg. starting work at 9am, reporting procedures, overtime etc

4. Don’t like my modest income

5. Don’t like the work culture.

6. All of the above.

What you exactly dislike about your job must be clearly determined, first.

If you have access to sufficient financial resources, then, "doing your own thing" becomes a realisable consideration. But what about the many who do not have sufficient money to "start all over again" or to "do something different" ?

It is difficult for most people to realise their dreams without having either extra money or extra time. James said that if you don’t have the time, but you have the money, you could always start a business (your meaningful work), by paying someone else to run it until it is profitable. Once it is profitable, then quit your job and run the business yourself.

Alternatively, James suggested, "If you have no money but have the time, you can partner with someone with the money". But he adds, this method is more difficult than the former method, but it is not impossible. "Find someone who has the same interest as you, and has the money, but has no time", he said.

James admitted to us that he has invested in a small business doing commercial photography that is run by someone else ("his partner"). "Every weekend I pop in and check things out. I give my partner a share plus a small salary. If things work out, I have an option to quit my job, or it can also remain as a nice sideline", James said.

What if you don’t have the time nor the money to pursue your dreams ?. Paul complained, "Where got time ? and whatever we earn goes into paying the bills and a little left for savings."

I told Paul, "Follow May Yen’s strategy, lah". I was referring to May Yen’s modest pursuit towards self-employment. May Yen quit her previous job last year and took a less glamorous job with less pay, less stress and less working hours. She did this so she could pursue her ambition of being a dance and yoga instructor, on a part time basis, for a start. She teaches on some weekdays and full days on weekends. Once she has enough students she plans to set up her own dance and yoga studio, and quit her day job. She is already making half her previous salary, with her dance and yoga classes.

May Yen’s strategy is a more feasible option for many of us. Start modestly first. Do something that you enjoy doing and have already acquired competent knowledge and skills in. Keep your financial expectations realistic.

All employees wanting to become entrepreneurs and "do their own thing" must be willing to accept the following realities of self employment:

1. You may not earn a regular income. This is especially true for those early start ups.

2. Your passion and financial wealth, may not coincide. Your earning potential may be less than your current profession or job. For example, if you are a doctor currently earning RM2,000. You can potentially earn RM30,000 or more a month as a doctor, in future (although there’s no guarantee). But your passion now is to be a journalist. If you become a journalist now, you will earn RM2,000 per month. If you do some free lance writing part time, you may earn an extra RM1000 per month. That’s a total of RM3,000 per month i.e. more than your current salary as a doctor. However, you must remember that it is not common even for a senior journalist to earn more than RM7,000 per month. You must accept that following your passion may never earn you as much money, as you could earn, sticking with your current work.

3. You may fail on your "career of passion" and lose a few years of your working life. There is no guarantee that you will succeed, even if you have the passion for doing something - there are too many variables in play.

4. You may be passionate about doing something but you may not have the skills and talent to earn a living doing it. Lets face it, not all football fans can become David Beckham. Look at your options, if you can’t be David Beckham, you can try being a football commentator, a columnist of a soccer website, a football bookmaker, own futsal pitches, trade in football gear etc. Look at other options to get involved.

5. You may open yourself to certain occupational hazards. For example, if your passion is to be a skydiver, then, you must accept the risks associated with such profession.

6. You may be criticised by society, your family, your girlfriend / boyfriend or your peers, for "following your passion". You must be very thick skinned and determined.

We teased Paul that he should quit his current job and take a job at a holiday resort. Working at a holiday resort would open up avenues for him to pursue his "gigolo activities" on a commercial basis.

In all professions there are occupational hazards - some are financial, some legal, some health, some social etc. Can you live with the occupational hazard of your preferred occupation ?

In Paul’s case, if he is serious about becoming a gigolo, then he would have to accept that he opens himself up to the higher risks of contracting STDs - a health hazard. He will also be ostracised by society - social hazard.

In James’ case, if he quits his job as an MD and pursues his photography business full time, he may not have the same status, authority or financial rewards as he has now, as a Managing Director - social and financial hazard.

In May Yen’s case, what if the dancing and yoga trend declines ? what will she do next ? - financial hazard.

However, being an employee these days do not isolate you from risks.

The same question can be asked of an employee, "what if your company goes "chap lup" (goes belly-up) or your industry declines – what will happen to you ?" The higher you go in the company’s hierarchy the higher the risks your job is exposed to – management reshuffle, salary review, cost cutting, down sizing, industry decline, relocation of work etc. Financial hazard - you could lose your job / pay cut, legal hazard - you could be sued for malpractice / vicarious liability etc, health hazards - stress, smoking, lack of sleep etc

In today’s world there is no certainly in work and in life. We must accept that life is indeed random and must be prepared for it.

Coping with risks in an uncertain world is certainly something worth learning. Seeking certainty and stability in an uncertain world, is hardly a realistic ideal any longer.

Meaningful work is indeed achievable in our society, by most working class professionals, but are we prepared to make trade offs ? What are our priorities ?


Whatever our definition of what meaningful work is, it is our obligation as free human beings to pursue it; to create an opportunity, when there is none.

Sadly, for some, feeding themselves ("cari makan") is still the main priority in life - just like the life of an animal.

As usual, post your comments and tell me your views.

Thursday, September 6, 2007

Pavarotti Died Today - A Reminder Of Our Mortality

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He lived the best life he could

Famous Italian opera singer Luciano Pavarotti died of pancreatic cancer at his home in the northern city of Modena today. He was 71 years old. Pavarotti was born in the outskirts of Modena, Italy, on 12th October 1935. He was the the son of Adele (Venturi), a cigar factory worker, and Fernando Pavarotti, a baker and singer.

Read the full story in this BBC report.

As a child, Pavarotti was interested in sports; soccer above all. When he graduated from the Schola Magistrale, he faced the dilemma of a career choice. He was interested in pursuing a career as a professional soccer player, but his mother convinced him to train as a teacher. He subsequently taught in an elementary school for two years but finally allowed his interest in music to win out. Recognizing the risk involved, his father gave his consent only reluctantly, the agreement being that Pavarotti would be given free room and board until age 30, after which time, if he had not succeeded, he would earn a living by any means that he could. Read more about his life in Wikipedia.

Pavarotti sold insurance to pay for his singing lessons - MSNBC

"With the encouragement of his then fiancee, Adua Veroni, he started lessons, selling insurance to pay for them. He studied with Arrigo Pola and later Ettore Campogalliani."

Pavarotti enjoyed 40 years on the world stage and became one of the world's biggest-selling artists.

"He was one of those rare artists who affected the lives of people across the globe in all walks of life" London's Royal Opera House

Pavarotti's death reminds us of our mortality as human beings.

Everyone will have to die one day; no one can live forever. It is thus everyone's obligation to live the best life they can. To sing one' s own song.

When I review my life one day, I want to be able to say with pride, that "I have no regrets having lived; I have lived the best life I could. I have also sang my own song"

Luciano Pavarotti. Farewell.

Please post your 2 cents in the comments section.


A Related Post - Are You Fed Up With Your Job ?

Saturday, September 1, 2007

Are you fed up with your job ? 5 Malaysian employees speak out

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Are you fed up with your job ? 5 Malaysian employees discuss a practical way to pursue meaningful work.

This post is for those who sigh when its already Sunday evening and complain that the weekend is too short.

My friend May Yen (not her real name) and myself, met at Sri Hartamas last week for dinner and drinks. We decided to meet at a seemingly popular restaurant (and bar), but for some people, it’s a bar (and restaurant) – you can now tell the different priorities people have when it comes to eating and drinking.

As usual, parking – a headache in places like this. I parked my car about half a kilometre away and walked – fuck !. At about 7.30pm, when I arrived, the restaurant (and bar) was already moderately filled with the after office crowd, . May Yen was late as usual. So I called her on her mobile, she answered and said "Eh, sorry lah, fucking jam here !, Im almost there, just wait, gimme 10 to 15 minutes…".

I know 10 to 15 minutes for May Yen usually means half an hour. I found a table and ordered a scotch (on the rocks). I waited and read a stupid lifestyle magazine (May 2006 issue) – more than 1 year old. I flipped through the first few pages and saw a few pictures of some "Datins" (maybe old models or minor celebrities– I’m not sure) all standing in a row, posing for the camera – fuckin’ hell.

I flipped through more of the old magazine and there were huge advertisements of over-priced watches and clothes, the names of which I’ve not even heard of before. One was called, I think, "Rocco Paccoco" – something like that. Another was called Pascal Chakal – or some fuck wit name. What weird sounding names. I suppose Malaysians will buy anything with a foreign sounding name. Then, the following pages had more Datins (or old models cum mistresses etc) posing, yet again, for some obscure charitable purpose.

Bored with the pretentious magazine, I flung it aside and looked at my watch – it was already 7.55pm. I looked around for May Yen but she still had not arrived. Suddenly my mobile rang – its fucking May Yen, she said "Eh, sorry. I’m here already. Just parking my car. Anyway, two other people are joining us". Apparently, she had invited two of her acquaintances, James Lee and Paul Shanker (not their real names), to join us. James Lee is the Managing Director of a subsidiary of a PLC and Paul Shanker is her ex colleague.

When May Yen came to the table I told her that since she had invited James and Paul for dinner, I should invite our other friend, Kate (not her real name), for drinks later – for her to do some "networking" (you will know why, later).

So, there were 5 of us, as follows:

May Yen, a single 29 year old accountant and a "fuckaholic". It’s not what you’re thinking…she is not addicted to sex. She just likes to say the word "fuck !", all the time.

James Lee is married. He’s in his mid 40's and is the Managing Director of a subsidiary of a PLC.

Paul Shanker, is a single 29 year old middle manager of a PLC, and is also a "social" gigolo (so he claims).

Kate, is single. She's a 30 plus year old advertising account manager and a part time born again MLM "entrepreneur". I know she will hate it when I put the word entrepreneur in inverted commas – evil me ! hahaha.

Me, a single, 30 plus year old professional…. My name and profession will remain a secret, for the time being. I prefer to be anonymous as it allows me to write things I would otherwise refrain from writing.

So for dinner, just the 4 of us. Kate came later for drinks. I’ve only met James once before and Shanker a few times.

As we were chit chatting about the traffic, the weather, food…yada, yada, yada …hehehe…hahaha…May Yen suddenly blurted out (as if she was inspired by some unexplained spiritual intervention) that her friend’s cousin, who was only 30 years old, died the previous week of stroke. Trust May Yen to introduce such unrelated topics of conversation so abruptly. This was how she said it, "hey guys ! guys….GUYS ! listen…GUESS WHAT ? last week my friend’s cousin died lah. He’s only 30. He died of stroke." According to May Yen, the deceased had stroke because he was stressed out and overworked.

So that’s how the topic of conversation steered towards "what is work all about ?" or if you prefer, "why do we need to work doing meaningless jobs ?"

James confessed that he doesn’t particularly enjoy his work – too much stress as he has so many responsibilities. He’d rather be a photographer. He said, "Everything also you have to take care, you know ?. You have to make sure business comes in. Then you got to make sure people pay on time. You think easy ah managing a company ? you have to solve other people’s problems. What to do ? have to "cari makan"."

Paul agreed. He said, "You got to manage your staff, deal with bosses, do unending paperwork…have to "tai chi" sometimes…etc etc" He said he would rather be a professional gigolo. I’m not sure if he’s serious about pursuing this profession. He has also mentioned this before, when we met a few times. May Yen would always tease him, "You sure you qualify ah ?, you so fat, how to be gigolo ?". His reply would always be, "I’m already doing it on a social basis, but I’ve not found a way to commercialise it". Whatever it is, Paul is also not happy with his current work. He said that when he first started working after graduation, he enjoyed his work, but eventually, the work pressure became overwhelming, but his salary hasn't been as overwhelming as his work – his salary is very modest, he claims, for a person with his responsibilities and qualifications.

May Yen and myself, although not particularly happy with our current work, but do not have any particular complaints. We only wonder if there is some better way of earning a living, rather then doing a job that we don’t enjoy. We don't want to do meaningless jobs for 35 years (or more) of our lives, and then, retire. Assuming we live that long.

Every one of us just looked at each other, in silence, not knowing what else to do or suggest about this scenario. This is definitely not a very good topic of conversation to have, during a weekday. May Yen is quietly picking at her French fries ! Lil’ Bitch – all her fault for sparking off this topic.

Lucky are those who have found their true calling in life. Lucky are those who can pursue their true calling in life.

Most of us have invested time and money in pursuit of our current careers These careers, unfortunately, have turned out to be unsuitable for us, whatever the reasons. Most continue unsatisfying careers just to pay the monthly bills or to comply with society’s expectations.

We work anything from 8 to 12 hours a day, even sometimes on weekends as well. If we factor in preparation and commuting time of approximately 2 hours each day, our total daily time commitment towards work is between 10 to14 hours.

That is 10 to 14 hours everyday, for 35 years. Then retire.

If most of our waking hours are spent working, isn’t it sensible to pursue work that has some meaning to us ? – something we find enjoyable.

At some point in our lives, we may find ourselves standing at a crossroad - passion or profession ?. You will ask, which path should I take ?. Should I continue to pursue my stable and secure, but meaningless career ?. Should I continue to invest more days of my life doing something meaningless, just to survive ?

Animals are born just to survive, then they die. Are we humans condemned to live life just like animals ? – born just to survive, then we die. Isn’t there anything more to life than this ?

Animals and slaves do not have a choice on this matter – animals are limited by its intelligence and slaves are restrained by their masters.

What about free human beings ? Isn’t it our obligation, as free human beings, to live life the way we choose, by pursuing meaningful work.

Is pursuing meaningful work only an option for the privileged few ? Are the rest of us just glorified slaves ?

Is "cari makan" more important than meaningful work ? Is there a reasonable compromise between the two ?

To be continued in Part 2.

Kate joins us for drinks, and the conversation continues. Discover why we think Kate’s strategy for financial freedom is potentially flawed. Read about what we collectively found to be a practical solution to "cari makan" while doing meaningful work.

Read Part 2 - Meaningful Work Vs Cari Makan

Meanwhile, please comment on this post.

Working Vs Sleeping

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Accoding to the latest study, time spent working has the biggest impact on sleep. The more hours you work, the less sleep you get. What takes most of your time ? - work and commuting time, takes more time off your sleep time, compared to eating and leisure time.

Modern technology which is supposed to increase productivity and give us more free time has infact made our life pace move faster. Read this BBC report.

Sleeping, eating and recreation are necessary activities to sustain life. Working is also a necessary activity to sustain life - earning money to pay the bills for goods and services received to sustain life. However, how much (and at what quality) are these goods and services necessary to sustain your life ? What is the level of comfort necessary for your survival ? Are you willing to pay the price ?

Comments please.

KL Ladies Night September 2007

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Mon - Wed


18SX @ Planet Hollywood

G003 Grd. Flr., KL Plaza, 179 Jln. Bukit Bintang, KL. T: 2144 6602
You're a star baby, so treat yourself like one. Enjoy free champagne, wine and Pina Coladas as women take top billing at the Planet tonight. 9pm. No cover.


Tue


Stiletto @ Sevenatenine

The Ascott, KL.
Girls' night out gets earlier on Tuesday at Sevenatenine. Enjoy a complimentary first drink of your choice then go wild with 25% off on all champer bottles. So kick off your office heels and put on stilettos at Sevenatenine. 10pm. No cover.


Wed


Ladies Night @ Chill

111, Blk. B Phileo D'sara 2, 15 Jln. 16/11, Sec. 16, Off Jln. Damansara, PJ. T: 7491 9438
Indulge in a bit of class at Chill where ladies' night is an affair in wine appreciation. A party of four girls get a complimentary bottle of Moscato d'Asti 2006, an aromatic semi-sparkling wine, and chocolate-covered strawberries! For info and reservations, call 6201 4911/016-228 8251.


Wed


Soul Candy @ Upstairs Club Lounge, The Loft KL

28-40 Jln. Doraisamy, Asian Heritage Row, Off Jln. Sultan Ismail, KL. T: 2691 5668
Ladies, reveal those sexy moves when DJ T-Bone hits the decks, with Kartel head honcho Joe Flizzow from Too Phat in charge of the verbal floetry. With a mixture of hot soul, funk and r 'n' b every Wed, you'll be perfectly pampered. 10pm. Ladies free, men RM30. For info, call 2691 5668.


Wed


Ladies Fashion @ Upstairs Club Lounge, The Loft KL

28-40 Jln. Doraisamy, Asian Heritage Row, Off Jln. Sultan Ismail, KL. T: 2691 5668
Ladies, tired of your shabby look? Get a massive makeover for a new you! At The Loft KL's Ladies Fashion night, you get treated like a star with vogue hairdos, beautiful henna body art and an extravagant buffet. And it's absolutely free! It's good to be a woman. 8pm. No cover. Private party for ladies only. Happens every last Wed of the month. For info, log onto www.theloftkl.com.


Wed


Kiss The DJ @ Cynna

Jalan Doraisamy, KL. 2694 2888
Ladies! Be fabulous and show some attitude as DJ Marco de Booj plays kiss-and-tell with all you bombshells. Well, not really, but that sure got your attention! Kiss The DJ arouses your deepest emotions as you lust over the sexiest commercial and disco house. 10pm. Ladies free, men RM35 inc. 1 drink. For info, log onto www.theloftkl.com.


Wed


Dance The Night Away @ Cafe Flam

OB2-G-U1 & U2, Oasis Blvd. Sunway Pyramid, 3 Jln. PJS11/15, Bdr. Sunway , PJ. T: 7492 0068
Put on your dancing shoes, ladies, this night is all about bopping to the tunes of resident DJ JD. Those who really know how to move that body get a chance to compete in a dancing contest, with up to 3 contestants chosen each week. The finals are held every last Wed of the month with a RM1000 cash prize up for grabs. 10.30pm. Ladies no cover, men RM30 inc. 1 drink.


Thu


Soul Sista @ Poppy

18-1, Jalan P. Ramlee, 50250, KL. T: 2141 8888
Prepare to kick start the weekend with the hot and sultry sounds of Poppy's Ladies' Night. Get the ball rolling by jiving to DJ Fara D's selection of the best r 'n' b and hip hop tunes, before partying the night away with JUICE's Best Looking Crowd for 2005. Ladies in a group of 8 receive a complimentary bottle of EX Raspberry Cognac. 10.30pm. Ladies free, men RM35 inc. 1 drink. For info, log onto www.poppy-collection.com.my.


Thu


Groove Nation @ Upstairs Club Lounge, The Loft KL

28-40 Jln. Doraisamy, Asian Heritage Row, Off Jln. Sultan Ismail, KL. T: 2691 5668
Resident DJ and original gangsta at The Loft KL every Thu, John Dave puts the "D" in dance and places sensual soul, r 'n' b and hip hop as his #1 priority. So krump, strut, sway ... do whatever you please to get the party crunked up. Every 1st Thu of the month sees Joe Flizzow from Too Phat throwing out rhymes and a live hip hop dance show for Groove Nation Magnum. 9pm. Ladies free, men RM35 inc. 1 drink.


Thu


Ladies' Night @ Cafe Flam

OB2-G-U1 & U2, Oasis Blvd. Sunway Pyramid, 3 Jln. PJS11/15, Bdr. Sunway , PJ. T: 7492 0068
Fire up your night at Cafe Flam on Thu. With DJ JD (short for John Dave) on the decks, you'll be getting jiggy with it in no time. There's also a Treasure Chest lucky draw, where someone really lucky walks away with the Grand Prize of RM1000 and 2 btls of Bacardi Limon. 10.30pm. Ladies free entry and premium drinks, men RM30 inc. 1 drink.


Thu


Ladies Night @ Velvet Underground

Zouk, 113 Jln. Ampang, KL. T: 2171 1997
Velvet Underground has its own special night for the ladies with Leonard T and Shazz throwing out musical treats in the form of commercial house candy. There might not be free flow, but it's all about the ambience, baby. 10pm. Ladies free bef. 12mn, RM20 inc. 1 drink aft., men RM20 inc. 1 drink. For info, log onto www.zoukclub.com.my.


Fri


Flirt With Me @ Ruums

1st & 2nd Flr. Bangunan Life Ctr., Jln. Sultan Ismail, KL. T: 2161 8162
Ruums brings sexy back with a load of DJs giving you a reason to purr. Get moving with tunes from DJs Remy, Sas, Ken and Jerryca (phew!) and if you're really good, you could be the podium disco queen of the night and win prizes! There are also sexy dance shows to feast your eyes on. 10pm. Ladies free, men RM25 inc. 1 drink. Group of 5 ladies gets a free bottle of Bacardi Limon and an endless flow of cocktails. For info, log onto www.ruumsclub.com.


















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